WOMAN AS CUSTODIAN OF LIFE
Copyright © Anne Baring
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Henry
Moore - 1945
People Looking at a Tied-up Object |
Upon women falls the task not only of throwing off their own economic
dependence, but of rescuing from the like thraldom the deepest realities
of which they were the first mothers.
Robert Briffault, The Mothers
If ever the world sees a time when women shall
come together purely and simply for the benefit of mankind, it will
be a power such as the world has never known.
Matthew
Arnold (1822-88)
In 1942 Henry Moore painted a picture which shows a group
of people gazing up at a huge shrouded figure, their smallness dwarfed
by its towering height. Beneath the shroud and the ropes which hold
it in place is a feminine shape. This painting suggests that a new archetypal
image of the numinous was emerging from the collective unconscious,
waiting to be unveiled, waiting to be recognised and received by humanity.
Henry Moore's greatest sculptures have the same feminine impress. His
shelter drawings take us back to the maternal womb hidden beneath the
earth – the cave in which we sought shelter as bombs rained death upon
our cities. Both sculptures and drawings point to the awakening of the
feminine archetype in the human soul.
----- In his late work, Mysterium Coniunctionis, Jung wrote that the "ultimate fate of every dogma is that it gradually
becomes soulless. Life wants to create new forms, and therefore, when
a dogma loses its vitality, it must perforce activate the archetype
that has always helped man to express the mystery of the soul."
(par. 488). The last fifty years of the twentieth century have witnessed
the activation of the feminine archetype. A quest has been undertaken
by hundreds of (mainly) women seeking to discover what has been lost,
neglected or excluded from our cultural tradition. Their efforts have
recovered for us the mystical and shamanic traditions that had to go
underground during the long centuries of persecution as well as the
mythology and imagery of the goddess. Like the magma of the earth's
molten core, the feminine principle has been pushing up from below the
level of our conscious lives until at last it is emerging into our awareness,
manifesting itself as a call for radical change in our values and our
beliefs by inviting us to reconnect with nature, soul and cosmos. As
a result, our values and our understanding of ourselves and our relationship
with the planet and the cosmos are changing. We are beginning to recover
the lost sense of participation in a sacred universe. This new phase
in the evolution of consciousness heralds what Owen Barfield aptly called
"Final Participation" (1) when humanity enters
into a conscious relationship and partnership with life, seeking not
to control and dominate it but to relate to, serve and protect it with
insight, compassion and wisdom.
----- The influence of the feminine principle
is responsible for our growing concern for the integrity of the life
systems of the planet and the attraction to the mythic, the spiritual,
the visionary, the non-rational — all of which nourish the heart and
the imagination, inviting new perspectives on life, new ways of living
in relationship to body, soul and spirit, generating a new understanding
of the psyche. The flood of books now being written by men and women
responding to the prompting of their intuition and their feelings would
have been inconceivable fifty years ago.
----- Jung recognised that the Papal Bulls
of 1950 and 1954 reflected the fact that something of great significance
was happening in the collective psyche: the feminine archetype, personified
by the Virgin Mary, was being raised to the level of spirit, named as
Queen of Heaven and declared "Assumed into Heaven, Body and Soul." A
further indication of the rehabilitation of the feminine principle was
the petition presented to the Pope in August 1997 asking that Mary be
declared co-redemptrix with Christ.
----- Jung anticipated a profound transformation
of consciousness as this "marriage" of the two great archetypal principles
was realised in the soul of humanity. To him it signified the reunion
of spirit and nature, mind and soul, thinking and feeling. Familiar
with the long mythological history which had led to this moment, he
saw this archetypal reunion as a new image of the sacred marriage –
that ancient ritual which once celebrated the union of heaven and earth.
He also saw it as the herald of the great event awaited in the Jewish
mystical tradition of Kabbalah – the wedding of the two indissoluble
but long separated aspects of the god-head: the Holy One and his Shekinah.
There have been many
books written by women which reflect the awakening of the feminine principle
but there is one book in particular called The Fabric of the Future published in 1999 which struck me as a splendid statement
of the deepest realities that Robert Briffault was referring to in the
quotation above. I have been moved and encouraged by this book which
is a symposium of short essays written by American women about how they
see the future and their role in it. Their insights offer a template
to women all over the world, throwing into high relief what is essential
if we are to act as custodians of the planet in the age to come. These
women of vision speak of our being in the midst of a "vast transformation,"
an "evolutionary awakening of global proportions," of a "deep and holy
hunger" and a "revelatory experience", which they see as "the great
turning" and "the rising of the soul of the world": the activation
of the feminine principle expressed as the law of relationship and love.
They express the dawning realisation that spirit is not something separate
and distant from ourselves but simply all that is and all that we are.
What a revolution in our values this realisation invites.
----- Dr. Joan Borysenko writes that from
the 1960's onwards the green shoots of regeneration began to become
visible in the response to Rachel Carson's Silent Spring, the
opposition to the Vietnam War, the awakening of women in the feminist
movement, the growing interest in spirituality, meditation and healing
and the "breaching of the doors of perception" through the writings
of Aldous Huxley and others. 20 million people (10.6% of the population
of the United States) now embrace the emergent values which have grown
from these roots, with a female/male ratio of two to one. Dr. Borysenko
says that, born in 1945, she now finds herself surrounded by "a huge
groundswell of women and men whose values were forged in the 1960's."
These have now come of age and have a growing influence in the culture.
Jean Shinoda Bolen confirms this with her own observation that at the
millennium, a critical mass of women reaching 50, women of wisdom, authority
and action, may determine the direction that humanity will take. "What
we do or fail to do at this liminal time," she writes, "will not only
shape the course of our personal lives, but collectively will affect
the third millennium and with it, the future of the planet."
----- Many writers speak of their having
found support and companionship with other women, sharing experience,
insights and rituals at regular meetings where the circle of women becomes
a sanctuary – "a place for divinity to dwell." Sue Patton Thoele writes
that rising from the ashes of injustice, domination, and fear, women
are reclaiming their heritage as essentially spiritual beings. They
are learning and growing through shared experience, each contributing
to the growth and well-being of all. "We are," writes Barbara Marx Hubbard,
"at the threshold of the emergence of a new archetype on Earth – the feminine co-creator. The co-creative woman is one who is activated
by spirit, awakened in the heart to express her unique creativity in
loving action which evolves both herself and the world…We have had many
types of women – the mother, the mystic, the priestess, the artist,
the healer, the pioneering woman. The co-creative woman is a synthesis
of all of this and something more, something new, because the world
condition in which we are emerging is new."
----- And what is this new type of woman
asked by life to accomplish? Something that has been forgotten by our
entire civilisation — the need, as T.S. Eliot put it, to "redeem the
unread vision in the higher dream." (Ash Wednesday 1V) This is the
vocation of the woman who is in touch with her heart and who is acting
as mid-wife to the birth of a new culture.
----- These essays offer a different perspective
on life grounded in the age-old experience of women. The stories they
tell have one clear message: their longing and their achievement is
to cherish every kind of relationship – with their families, with their
small local groups, with their environment, with the planet – in order
to bring the emergent values into clearer focus, in order to give expression
to them in their personal lives and a wider community.
----- What transfuses their words is an
awakening planetary awareness and service of the feminine principle
— the Sacred Feminine, or Holy Spirit of Wisdom, as several writers
define it. This feminine ethos which has as its focus the need to cherish,
to serve, to nurture life, is simply and eloquently expressed without
any attempt to impose an ideology or a creed.
----- These American women are without
doubt the leaders in this field because so many of them have faced and
overcome the fear of abandonment, financial deprivation and loneliness
which has held countless women in unhappy or sterile relationships for
centuries. They have grown sufficiently in depth and understanding to
become aware of a spiritual direction in their lives and, like master-mariners,
to hold to that course. They have made the commitment to deeper values
and a process of self-transformation. Over some thirty years they have
become well educated, well organised, articulate, experienced in the
world and confident. They express themselves with fluency and grace.
They are a role model and an inspiration to women everywhere.
----- The principal theme defined by the
contributors to The Fabric of the Future is the shift from what
Riane Eisler has called the "Dominator" model of society wherein we
seek to control, manipulate and exploit life for our own personal or
national advantage, to a "Partnership" model which recognises the need
for a totally new consciousness grounded in compassionate awareness
of the indissoluble relationship between ourselves and all creation.
----- There are still women bound by archaic
tribal and religious beliefs or forced into subservience to a tyrannical
regime who, tragically, cannot yet free themselves or be freed from
this state of virtual slavery (notably Afghanistan). There are also
women who are deeply unconscious of any moral responsibility towards
life and other human beings who blindly follow political or religious
leaders responsible for the most bestial acts of cruelty towards other
human beings, women who turn a blind eye to the torture, murder and
suffering of others or who have silently to witness this barbarism because
they have no possibility of protest or intervention. There are women
who, because of tribal custom, their own beliefs or an imposed religious
code, are driven to bear children far beyond their physical strength
or their capacity to love and care for them.
----- Only a tiny handful of women in relation
to the great mass of humanity have the possibility of conscious choice.
Most are bound by the circumstances of their fate, by the ethos and
beliefs of their culture and by unconscious complexes. What these essays
show is the deep turning of the culture that can be accomplished by
those few women who have choice, who choose to speak and act
on behalf of life, not out of a sense of duty but out of the compassionate
response of the heart. They are not interested in power for its own
sake but in exercising what power they have on behalf of life, on behalf
of others.

So what is the present
focus of the feminine principle? I believe it is to put us in touch
with what has been lost to consciousness, to relate us to the deep sources
of our psychic life and draw up from these depths the living waters
which nourish and sustain the soul. The recovery of the feminine principle
is the key to the transformation of our world culture from decay and
disintegration and progressive regression into uniformity, banality
and brutality, into something longed for and extraordinary.
----- Woman's own awakening to the realisation
of her value is part of the recovery of the feminine principle. It is
as if a momentous birth is taking place in the collective psyche of
woman. This birth may be experienced as something that is deeply perplexing
and difficult as well as something exciting and challenging. As woman
gives birth to herself, to her unique individuality, to the emerging
awareness of her value as woman (not an imitation of man), the feminine
principle will also emerge in the consciousness of humanity which for
so long has suffered from its repression and rejection. Woman, whose
essential nature is to respond to suffering and need, is now responding
to life's own need and is experiencing herself as the vessel of transformation
in which a new consciousness is being born. If anyone personified and
lived this process of birth and awakening for the whole world to see,
it was the late Princess Diana. Tragically, she did not live to realise
how significant and important her contribution was.
----- There is a Hassidic saying which
goes: "When the moon shall shine as bright as the sun, the Messiah will
come." Woman through her struggle to understand herself and to articulate
the highest values of the feminine principle, could begin to make the
moon shine so that it softens the sun-brightness of our present consciousness.
In accepting her depression, her suffering, her loneliness, her longing
to outgrow the inarticulateness and powerlessness of her past existence,
she may accomplish something truly heroic and extraordinary for life,
something which humanity in centuries to come will recognise and cherish.
Each woman who gives birth to herself and responds to what life is asking
her to accomplish, contributes to the survival of our species and the
diminishment of human suffering.
----- For this reason, nothing is of such
value or of such importance as woman's rescue of herself. This is something
very difficult for woman to accept because in the past the whole impulsion
of her nature has been to respond to the needs of others. The fact that
she herself is in greatest need of her own help, support and understanding
is the very first step in the direction of polishing the moon. It will
only shine as bright as the sun when woman has become Orpheus to her
own Eurydice and has rescued herself from "the powers of the underworld"
which symbolise her unconsciousness of her value and her bondage to
the subservient pattern of the past.

Long ago, in the Neolithic
era and the early Bronze Age, woman was believed to have a magical connection
with the earth, with plants and trees, with animals and the rhythms
of nature. Her fertility was identified with the fertility of the life
of earth and she was thought to enhance it by participating in certain
rituals. In all times and places, once new life was growing in her,
woman was initiated into a profound participation with nature through
her role as co-creator with it, knowing that her life might be sacrificed
in giving birth to the life she carried. The key word here, once again,
is participation, because her experience as mother and grandmother gave
her the feeling of having a sacred role, participating in the
life of nature as Great Mother. But the foundation of this instinctive
participatory feeling which was developed in the social role and the
rituals created by women and transmitted from mother to daughter, was
the millions of years of genetic programming before the advent of the
human species, the millions of years of experience as female mammal,
female animal. Human consciousness has evolved out of this older mammalian
matrix, and this pre-human genetic memory influences maternal behaviour
to this day. It is of great importance in understanding the origin of
woman's capacity to care for life and to recognise and respond to the
needs of others, particularly her children.
----- Woman's experience of being the carrier
and nurturer of life, living, as it were, the role of the Great Mother,
bound to the greater rhythm of nature by the rhythms of her menstrual
cycle and the ten lunar months of gestation before the birth of her
child, has given a profound value, meaning and responsibility to her
life. The observation through countless millennia of the way women carried
their children in the womb, gave birth to them, nourished and cared
for them during their dependent years, endowed women with a numinous
significance as the carrier and custodian of life. Women have always
prepared food for their families: for countless millennia they have
planted, tended and gathered crops, ground seeds and kernels of wheat
or corn into flour, cooked and transformed the raw material drawn from
the earth into food.
----- Woman's immemorial experience of
herself as the carrier and nurturer of life helped to define the image
and qualities of the Great Mother as Nature who could protect, nourish,
contain and transform life. Woman as the young girl: the seed, the
blossom, the crescent moon, nascent, virgin life; woman growing to
maturity as mother: the plant, the fruit, the full moon; woman as grandmother,
wise old crone: the harvested crop, the stored fruit, the waning moon — each of these was recognised and celebrated. Each phase of woman's life experience as well as the observation of
the moon's eternal cycle, helped to define the relationship of woman
to nature and the cosmos. Woman's menstrual cycle connected her in the
depths of her being with the immensely powerful rhythms of the earth
and nature: the rhythm of the seasons, the rhythm of the moon and the
stars, the rhythm of the cycle of the crops and the rhythm of the ocean
tides. Born of her mother, giving birth to her daughter who would, in
turn, become the carrier and custodian of life, she could feel connected
to an immemorial past of mothers, and an immemorial future of daughters,
each a transmitter of the life process, each surrendering to an experience
more mysterious and powerful and demanding than any other, requiring
as it were, her submission to an instinctual process which, ineluctably,
as the vehicle of life, she served.
----- In Christian culture, woman had to
endure the negative projections of a priesthood which described her
as a flawed and inferior being. Aligned with nature and body in the
split between nature and spirit and identified with Eve who introduced
death, sin and suffering into the world, her sexuality was named as
a temptation to man and the pain and risk of death in childbirth a punishment
for Eve's sin of disobedience to God. The contorted attempts of Christian
writers from St. Jerome and St. Augustine to Calvin to punish woman
for her descent from Eve bear eloquent witness to the misogyny which
has contaminated Christian culture. The image of God, with the feminine
dimension of the divine excised from it, and the attitudes and social
customs derived from a belief in original sin have inflicted and still
inflict enormous and unnecessary suffering on her. Her standpoint, her
values, her feelings were ignored and denigrated and her voice was,
so to speak, deleted from the history of Western civilisation. Not surprisingly,
she developed a negative internalised image of herself which has inhibited
her from speaking and living her truth. She is just beginning to recover
the role she lived in earlier cultures: the role of healer, sibyl, priestess
and shaman, beginning to discover and express her immense creative and
healing gifts which are focussed through her deep sense of relationship
with life.
----- Women's lives have been radically
transformed through the active part they played during the Second World
War, through access to higher education and through contraception. The
rebellion expressed in the feminist movement (with roots in the eighteenth
and nineteenth centuries) against the millennia-old ethos of patriarchal
culture has also liberated many women from a confined and diminished
life. They are entering and creating a wide range of professions which
did not exist 50 years ago. This represents an enormous expansion of
their creative gifts and a great enrichment of the culture. (Psychotherapy
is but one field in which they excel). Their newly discovered creativity
releases the latent potential in others, helping both men and women
to follow their heart in whatever career or calling present itself to
them as a channel of expression for their gifts.
----- But there is one big problem: woman
still finds it enormously difficult to value herself. Because of the
long emphasis on the inferiority and guilt of woman, the irrelevance
of her thoughts and feelings, and the insistence that her only role
in life was to be a mother, and to serve their husband and the community
regardless of her own needs, motherhood became identified with a state
of servitude and worthlessness. Today many women in their quest for
individuality and autonomy (which is part of the evolutionary imperative
of our time) reject the image of themselves as "only a mother" because
of the negative image associated with being a woman and a mother in
the past. A great deal of depression in modern mothers may be related
to this negative image. I recently met a German woman, mother of five
children (two of them handicapped) who said that she felt inferior and
inadequate when professional women came to her house. She felt she had
nothing of value to say or to contribute and she felt miserable after
they left. So many mothers echo her words – usually with the phrase
"I am only a mother." I told her I was writing a book for women like
herself whose deep devotion to her children is the most profound contribution
and the highest spiritual value anyone can live and express. Did she
ever, I asked her, love and praise herself? Did she ever say, 'I
am of value to life, to my children and husband, to the community, precisely
because of the love and care I give to those I love?' Did she ever
pause to think of her own needs, whether physical or emotional? Did
she ever praise herself, or give herself an hour's rest? "No," she
said, "but I will do so from now on."
----- There is a danger that in seeking
power and equality with men in order for her voice and her creative
gifts to be recognised, woman may unconsciously reject the very foundation
which gives her, through her millennial experience as custodian of life,
something of supreme importance to say. I think the word custodian is
appropriate here because woman has a deep instinct to care for the life
she has brought into being until it is strong enough to care for itself.
In all communities, as far as I am aware, women care for the young and
the old. In some they plant and gather the crops which provide food;
in all they prepare food to nourish their families. Their primary concern
even when they themselves are faced with starvation or death, is for
the survival and well-being of their children. They hold the community
together, integrating the life of the old and infirm with the life of
the young through the network of caring relationships they instinctively
maintain. Women are becoming aware that if the environment is threatened
with pollution and toxins the health and lives of their children will
be endangered. Education has given a voice to a few women but there
is an immense and world-wide task to be addressed in enabling countless
millions of others to play a more active and articulate role in the
life of society. Above all there is a need for women to value their
role as women and as mothers if the catastrophic social and psychic
effects of their long devaluation and subservience (often carried unconsciously
by themselves as well as by their culture) are to be reversed and if
the transmission of this diminished view of women to new generations
of sons and daughters is to be brought to an end. (The contemptuous
denigration of women who stay at home and "bake cakes" in favour of
the "power" based career woman is one contemporary example of this).
----- The best modern example I can think
of to illustrate the strength and value and importance of woman's ancient
role as custodian of life is the role of the grandmother in Jung Chang's
book Wild Swans. Were it not for the care she gave her daughter
and grandchildren, none of them would have survived. Another woman who
has most clearly described the responsibility and vital role of women
is Aung San Suu Kyi. In her address to the 1995 Forum on Women in Beijing,
she emphasised the feminine qualities of tolerance, compassion and women's
ability to teach and to learn: "I am not talking of learning in the
narrow sense of acquiring an academic education but of learning as the
process of absorbing those lessons of life that enable us to increase
peace and happiness in our world...Women in their role as mothers have
traditionally assumed the responsibility of teaching children values
that will guide them throughout their lives. It is time we were given
the full opportunity to use our natural teaching skills to contribute
towards building a modern world that can withstand the tremendous challenges
of the technological revolution which has in turn brought revolutionary
changes in social values."
----- For thousands of years man's role
has been defined as warrior and protector of the community and his life
was primarily focussed on achieving a position in the world and extending
his role as hunter into the role of provider and protector of his family.
Now, with woman leaving the home and entering the arena of the world,
often in competition with him, the older pattern is giving way to a
different role for both – as companion and partner of the other – often
sharing the domestic care of their children and the responsibilities
of earning enough money to provide for their needs. Although accompanied
by much turmoil and stress, woman's perception of man and man's perception
of woman is changing and with it, a stereotyped and outgrown pattern
of relationship which had diminished women and denied men access to
their feelings.
----- The main danger for women is that
in the attempt to live a double life, earning their living in the world
and trying to maintain the traditional role of mother, they may succumb
to exhaustion and illness because the strain is too great. Also, the
discovery of their creative gifts and the attempt to find and maintain
a channel for them, may leave insufficient time and energy for close
relationships with partners and children. Some women can manage to integrate
both life patterns – to "have it all". Others cannot and have to sacrifice one to the other
because they do not have the physical and emotional energy to live both
simultaneously. Their relationships and their physical and mental health may suffer from the stress of this
situation and from trying to compress too much experience into too few
years.
----- There may be two fundamental reasons
for the increasing breakdown of relationships between men and women:
one is the alienation of women from their deepest values in their attempt
to copy the lifestyle of men and to be accepted on equal terms with
men; the other is that whether consciously or unconsciously, women are
trying to bring into being a new ethos and to move away from the one
which has dominated political and social life over the last few millennia.
Men, particularly in cultures which do not accept any role for woman
other than that of subservient wife and mother, wish to retain the dominant
role in the relationship and this may create a deep tension between
them. But where a new kind of collaboration and partnership is brought
into being, each can enhance, support and extend their own and the other's
creative potential.

----- "Some day,"
Rilke wrote prophetically in 1904 in one of his Letters to a Young
Poet, "girls and women in their new, their own unfolding will but in
passing be imitators of masculine vices and virtues and repeaters of
masculine professions. After the uncertainty of such transitions it
will become apparent that women only went through the whole range and
variety of those (often ridiculous) disguises in order to clean their
own most characteristic nature of the distorting influences of the other
sex. Women in whom life lingers and dwells more immediately, more fruitfully
and more confidently, must naturally have become fundamentally riper
people, more human people, than man who is easy-going, by the weight
of no fruit of his body pulled down below the surface of life, and who,
presumptuous and hasty, undervalues what he thinks he loves. This humanity
of woman, carried out in suffering and humiliation, will then, when
in the commutations of her external situation she will have stripped
off the conventions of being only feminine, come to light, and those
men, who do not yet feel it approaching today, will be astonished and
stunned by it.
----- Some day (and of this, particularly
in the northern countries, reliable signs already clearly speak), some
day there will be girls and women whose name will no longer signify
merely an opposite of the masculine, but something in itself, something
that makes one think, not of any complement and limit, but of life and
existence: the female human being.
----- This advance will (at first much
against the will of the men who have been outstripped) change the experiencing
of love, which is now full of error, will alter it from the ground up,
reshape it into a relation that is meant to be of one human being to
another, no longer of man to woman. And this more human love (that will
fulfil itself, infinitely considerate and gentle, and good and clear
in binding and releasing) will resemble that which we are with struggle
and endeavour preparing, the love that consists in this, that two solitudes
protect and touch and greet each other." (2)
Twenty three years
later (1927), Jung ended an essay entitled "Women in Europe" with the words: "God himself cannot flourish if man's soul is starved.
The feminine psyche responds to this hunger, for it is the function
of Eros to unite what Logos has sundered. The woman of
today is faced with a tremendous cultural task – perhaps it will be
the dawn of a new era." (3) Jung foresaw that
as woman had access to education, financial independence and a wider
role in the world, she would in time find the words to articulate what
is of supreme importance to her and the strength to insist that her
voice is heard. She would finally and irrevocably answer Freud's plaintive
question: "What does woman really want?" She would build a bridge between
an era that denies there is anything beyond ourselves and an era that
wants to reconnect with all that is beyond. She would, in a word, break
through the restricting, claustrophobic, superficial atmosphere of our
culture into a freer, finer quality of air. She might even create a new kind of civilisation, grounded in different, more caring values.
----- So what can woman do to act as mid-wife
to the birth of this new era? She can nurture an awareness which reconciles
mind with body and thinking with feeling; one which brings together
the intellectual capacities of the mind with the feeling values of the
heart in a marriage that in turn would draw her into relationship with
a deeper dimension of reality. She can re-discover and re-establish
the connections between things that have been fragmented; articulate
and support values that have been over-ridden and dismissed for centuries
— values that serve and protect life instead of exploiting and misusing
it for divisive political, religious or commercial aims. She can aim
at the highest in the certainty that thereby, ultimately, all lower
aims will be achieved.
----- For myself, I now know that life
is sacred and indivisible. I want there to be an end to unnecessary
suffering — the suffering born of ignorance and the belief that the
human species is separate from and superior to nature – through having
been given dominion over it – and therefore has the right to do what
it wants to the fragile web of life. I want there to be an end to the
sacrifice of life and the manufacture of demonic weapons of war. I cannot bear
to see women and children rendered destitute because they have lost
their husbands and fathers in war nor the cruel sacrifice of young male
lives. I cannot bear to think of orphans of my grandson's age left abandoned
and weeping in the streets of devastated towns and villages. I want
to see an end to the spectacle of man as predator. I cannot endure the
screams of men and women abused, raped, tortured. I cannot accept women's
continued thraldom to religious beliefs and social customs which exacerbate
and perpetuate the suffering they have already endured (for example,
the belief that a raped woman is defiled and unfit for marriage or the
custom that enforces on a girl the excision of her clitoris).
----- I know many women feel as I
do. However, millions of women are struggling simply to survive and
have no possibility of expressing their feelings. Those more materially
fortunate may be immersed in establishing themselves in their careers
and in relationships with partners and children. Few have the time or
the inclination to think of these things, yet unless they are thought
of, there may be no future. Older women who have the time and the life
experience need to speak out in defence of the future well-being – even
the survival – of their children and grandchildren.

Jung repeatedly drew
attention to the fact that the fate of the earth depends on the individual
— on the capacity of women and men to relate to their soul, to become
aware of and to value that part of themselves they know least: their
deepest feelings and instincts which are the root of their creative
imagination. This instinctual dimension of ourselves, so split off from
consciousness, so little explored and understood, is the matrix of our
creative life, and is immeasurably older and sometimes wiser than the
more recently developed aspect of ourselves we call our rational mind. Becoming aware
of this instinctual dimension of ourselves and the immense field of
relationships and experience it embraces constitutes an evolutionary
advance for, until we learn how to relate to it, how to integrate it
with our more familiar, focussed ability to think, we remain emotionally
immature, the prey of unconscious drives, emotions, compulsions and
complexes. More dangerously, we may fall victim to the manipulation
of political or religious leaders who still think only in ideological
and collective terms, rather than in terms of what truly benefits the
people they are meant to serve. The imagination and the psychic freedom
as well as the creativity of a whole culture may be crippled when there
is so little awareness and understanding of how we may be unconsciously
driven and possessed by the power of the neglected instinct.
----- The recovery of the feminine principle
may be compared to the excavation of a precious treasure. A new image
of spirit as the totality of all that is has begun to restore nature,
matter and the body to the realm of the sacred. It is giving woman a
voice and a value and a sacred image of herself. It is giving man a
new image of himself as protector and preserver of life, not in the
old warrior role but in a new role as advocate and nurturer of spiritual
values which transcend the desire for power and self-aggrandisement.
These values have been beautifully expressed by the Prince of Wales
in a recent paper called A Time to Heal:
"As I have grown older I have gradually come to realize
that my entire life so far has been motivated by a desire to heal -
to heal the dismembered landscape and the poisoned soil; the cruelly
shattered townscape, where harmony has been replaced by cacophony; to
heal the divisions between intuitive and rational thought, between mind,
body and soul, so that the temple of our humanity can once again be
lit by a sacred flame; to level the monstrous artificial barrier erected
between Tradition and Modernity and, above all, to heal the mortally
wounded soul that, alone, can give us warning of the folly of playing
God and of believing that knowledge on its own is a substitute for wisdom."
(4)
The activation of the feminine principle has recovered
for us the lost image of soul and is reconnecting us to our instincts
and liberating our creative imagination. It is effecting a profound
alchemy beneath the surface of the culture. Women and men are both participating
in a process of transformation which is bringing into being a new cultural
focus, one whose emphasis is no longer on power and control but on a
greater awareness of the interweaving of all aspects of life. The phrase
"the conquest of nature" is being replaced by the realisation that humanity
and nature participate in a deeper and still unexplored reality which
contains them both.
----- Woman's age-old instinct to nurture
and sustain life, man's instinct to protect and defend it are being
extended to embrace the life of the Earth. A planet which has taken
three and a half billion years to evolve an organ of consciousness through
which life can come to know itself may be under threat: our survival
as a species is uncertain. Before too long, we may not be able to alter
the course of events we have unwittingly set in motion. Yet, in response
to the extreme peril of this situation we are beginning to recover the
ancient feeling of relationship with a sacred earth and a sacred cosmos.
We are responding to the instinct which is urging all of us to become
custodians of life, drawing men and women closer together in partnership
to act on behalf of life, on behalf of each other, on behalf of the
Earth before it is too late.
Notes:
1. Owen Barfield, Saving the Appearances, Second
Edition, Wesleyan University Press, Connecticut, 1988.
2. Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet, Letter VII. Translation
M.D. Herter Norton. W.W. Norton & Co. Inc., New York 1934.
3. CW 10, Civilization in Transition, par. 275, Routledge and
Kegan Paul, 1964.
4. The concluding paragraph from "A Time to Heal" by HRH The
Prince of Wales, first published in issue 5, "The Temenos Academy
Review", Autumn 2002.
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